Decision paralysis – it’s real and it’s very unpleasant. However, not making a decision is in itself a decision, so at least you’ve come this far.
You can’t have it all – at least not all at once. You have to choose. And with each choice, something else will have to go by the wayside. That might cause you anguish or pain, but without choosing, everything will go by the wayside and you risk, eventually, being left with nothing.
There is no such thing as truly staying stuck. It’s just a question of whether you’ll make a choice and step forward or someone or something else will do it for you, be that circumstances or time but forward you will move, whether you choose to be an active participant or not.
There’s no such thing as true indecision, there’s just passive and active participation. Either way, you’ll move forward and it’ll still be your choice how much control you’re willing to give up in the process.
What's the story you tell yourself, and is it helpful or hindering?
Remember though, with whatever I, or anyone else shares, take what you like and leave the rest because it's your life and, therefore, your choice of how to live it.
After all, this is the Manual of YOU!
Until next time, take care, stay safe - and sane - and make kind choices!
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