People don't engage with you, become or stay your friend, or want to date or marry you because you're so bland you fit in everywhere, unnoticed.
What if you focused more energy on what you're bringing to the table and towards your fans, than to what you think you're not and towards your critics?
Focused more on what makes you interestingly unique instead of indistinguishably beige?
And please the people who matter to you, instead of everyone else in all the neighbouring tribes?
What's the story you tell yourself, and is it helpful or hindering?
But remember - it's your life, your choice!
After all, this is the Manual of YOU!
Until next time, take care, stay safe - and sane - and make kind choices!
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